Break

“Why do we have brakes in a car”?

Varied answers were received, like,

  1. “To stop”,
  2. “To reduce speed”,
  3. “To avoid collision” etc.,

but the best answer was, “To enable you to drive faster”

Give it a thought. It’s true but seldom such smart out of box thinking is done, much less appreciated. For a moment assume you have no brakes in your car then how fast will you drive your car?! It’s because of brakes that we can dare to accelerate, dare to go fast and reach destinations we desire.

At various points in life, we find our parents,teachers, mentors & friends etc. questioning your progress, direction or decision. We consider them as irritants or consider such inquiries as “brakes” to our ongoing work. But, remember, it’s because of such questions (read periodical brakes) that you have managed to reach where you are today. Without brakes, you could have skid, lost direction or gone astray or met with an unfortunate accident !!!. Learn to appreciate the ‘brakes’ in your life. Use them wisely…

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Change in life

Change in day to day is necessary thing as certain situation in life we cannot move out..!! Being Bachlor and  being single, people often need change .change about surrounding ,change about surrounding people,options are many there .you twist your mind ,your thoughts will chease yourself, life gave you a chance to turn a way towards it.Either a wish can be fullfilled and it takes time to manage everything according to  wish.But Lesser traffic of thoughts lesser will be your journey .Being Honest and sincere in life time will change everything .need for change need for journey need for life need for hope need to love,need to achieve .behind everything there is need there is way if there is will.Honesty is best policy but some people may take advantage of your nature…so change in your nature is necessary.To be or not to be is the question but to be is the attitude .kya hoga iss se jo hoga vo dekha jayega.You visit every place ,it gave you immense pleasure inside .inner power tease you and lead you never lag you .”remember every action there is equal and opposite reaction.if you push for anything which forcefully your thoughts made it to happen but when there is no meaning in life when there is no change.If you are bored about the place change the place go where you like manage it financially,mentally and with company it gives u joy. To engage your mind is not just rest try to enanage your mind with some stuffs extraordinary things you will get your focus clear learn to get thing don’t just run for thing.change is necessity if you are not getting thing in your way then change the way don’t change your goal either its your hobby,its your maturity,its your mood ,switching your mood and thinking about memories is not solution.past has gone,don’t waste your present by thinking about past Future is awaiting for you /switch your mood and try to be happy not really sad or bad or depressed,sometimes you feel alone you need company to share with someone but phase has gone once you are happy with yourself inside .Your hope and your need to change your lifestyle ,your place you living from childhood it may be gave you mental sickness to adjust with some different life or it may give you happiness its upto you.negativity kills our many thoughts yet to come.Your positive approach towards to thing which you want to change in your life gave you everything which you want !! If you are alone and you feel loneliness and you dont want to make new friends then make surrounding nature as your friend ,make your pet as friend ,make your fishpot as friend ,make your pet birds as friend ,be attached with one thing in life like which never return anything to you but it gave you immense pleasure inside. Dont wish for anything in return learn to chease your mood in your way ,how two roomates are living together still you feel lonely as there is gap of sharing they didnt get time to share and dont need it but it truely give rise to their health issue as they cant share their sorrow ,joy as they attached due to just finantial need ,they cant angry to each other as fit happens owner of housse will do some action,its very deep pain when you are with surrounding but you feel yourself somewhere different and you feeel lonely your loneliness starts when you realise yourself when your bad patch comes and it slowly disappear with new good patch in life but it mean life gave you another chance at that time you suddenly gone through mental shock and you realise you need attention ,care.yes when you are rising stars in astrology are good (when you get everything goody goody whatever your mind desire ) then definitely your friends will less and your enemies will be more but love that enemies beacause they are teaching you ,you are leader and they are lag behind ,when someone come first 100 will last due to their madness .Change in you can change the surrounding how you present yourself can tackle your loneliness,you get people more to share but you loose them to share because there are some boundaries and limitations to share your views wither in your workplace ,in your home,also with your partner too.try to  be change in action may activate and reachrge yourself own to move towards phases/shades of life!

Your five fingers

Five fingers of your hand what actually it has its own importance.If your one finger may cut or during driving it may injured it recovers it takes time likewise five points in life first finger is your perception(approach) towards task second middle finger is your efforts towards task or gathering information needed for that task or to be educate ,aware to do task,third finger is your willingness ,your hope , when you realized that’s very tough stage you decide that into parts and fourth finger is to stop others who demotivate you to do task ,last not but least your thumb fifth finger is your gear your speed or speed up your brain or your understanding level to the point where nobody can receive such signals they needed antenna like you.be antenna of yourself like your behavior,your nature,your sincere efforts ,how you run your shoes towards your dream.when these all fingers together simple life never tease you.somebody says when you point one finger towards anyone rest fingers on your side but what exactly you give importance to which finger and for what that you should rest author plan always worked and they can reach their thoughts/views by writing with pointing finger.your pencil can write one sentence but it reads thousands of people .sometimes a single thought can work out anything may be any big thing.so Just think about yourself and focus ,life itself truely motivated if our pointing finger-approach is right direction and perpendicular with your understanding level.that’s set!!

A Bridge in Life

According to newtons law opposite poles attract each other and same pole repel each other likewise which things we don’t want in life which are exactly against to mindset and expectations then a bridge is created  between expectation and mindset.and in this bridge our expectations lags behind ,suffering starts..what we are living really we want to live this lifestyle? everything happening accordingly what is already written for our future and present of need .Things in life are like characters on stage plays their role.Change  in  entire future life is learning and optimism .Being serious and  just listening  you seniors as to change on that thing is not in our hand.To make change and to understand the change in life and bring positive behind every task is necessity.

The whole universe chease to achieve money and just to complete desires,and its need to fullfill the lifestyle.But what’s this bridge then……sometimes somewhere we want to achieve  one thing thats only wish ..just example if you want strawberry basket it is not available in nearby shop you run towards other where it gets . likewise you run towards goal like fruit and efforts is that way running towards shop where you get stawberry then may  that way is complex like fuzzy logic you cannot draw set and subset of your wishesh being awareness ,sincerity and logic behind your need and your thoughts turned into action thats the hope.The bridge between you and your hope or desire make you supeiror through your experiences .

To complete any thing it may your dream ,your willingness,awareness ,thinking power ,your efforts can complete bridge,it name simplies conjunction between two points.train can run move fast on bridge than when it passes through tunnel same when there is no focus or spotlight on what you achieve there will no lifegame possible

Hope makes life Meaningful…

Enjoy Balance of LifE

Everyday starts with smile. If day start with happy mood, whole day you enjoy in same mood. To cook Food, recipe is must and proportion of contents must be likewise. While Enjoying food, thinking about its ingredients or about surrounding nature also makes you mood.

You only need is to switch your moods and make yourself your favourite one!

In morning think about that single day you began with full of smile, you will get loving sunshine. There are several kinda of people you met in life, either for search of your need or theirs or purpose of socialism, no one is kind here in world. World is High to understand and to reach the peak. Just reach up to your inner voice & that is sufficient!

So Whats recipe of life? Its combination of several your mood switching your happiness, your sorrow, your depression, your tension and importantly your patience to achieve your desire. All these moods (nature) are building blocks or ingredients to build your own life. To construct first floor, ground floor is important, so you can construct highest building of your life! One of important step in life can move or give path of life.

Being philosophical, certain people in life, supporting you or not is not much as important that you support yourself or not or you are first to take any decision.

You just Enjoy what you like, Sports, hobby, study, music, reading, anything can change your mood, your day, your bad patch in life. You only rebuild yourself and yours thoughts can build yourself from inside. Be positive.

Certain stages in life never recover, due to that we lag somewhere. But every dig we can be filled and reconstruct our life. Just keep time lag behind. The therapy you got about life during lagging period is essential! Healing is solution. Prevention is better than cure, somewhere we make our-self safe sometimes cure is just within. Self appraisal is best appraisal than others appraising you for anything in Life. In a same way, you nourish your own plant …..

Now recipe can  be complete and tasty only when ingredients are in proportion and in time . Likewise switching of your own mood or immediate reaction about any situation depends on you only!

How you change yourself, controlling your own moods, is important because changing other people’s nature is not in your hand!

BE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND

@@Improving LiFeStYlE  !!

BE YOUR OWN BEST  FRIEND

Just improving lifestyle mean what you eat ,what you wear,where you  are living ,where you are working…is it improving lifestyle…Its matter of quality of thoughts…whats going inside your mind…your self confidance,,,you respect yourself..first!! improving lifestyle….just mean where you live….which restaurant you are going….ya its status….just updating your facebook account…where you are…(Location) ,what you feel….is it your social life….???

Its really good- being part of social sites your communicating others indirectly places you visited.. they are awaring about new places till now they may not visited,they are hunting same places …point is..what you feel inside,divine power(MIND power ) that what you desire…You want to go MacD ,You want to go Pizzahut..yes, is this change your own world???….where you are working …..is this change your own world??Visiting World……..your World tour and World bank with you…can give you everything….then what a real happiness….one thing should keep in mind the place where you visited…the food what you eat…the people with whom you are living….give u peace of life.. analyse it Changing surrounding world is not solution ,changing yourself ….your attitude towards everything…balancing life.Life is straight path…but where speedbreakers  come and where you are applying breaks…(on your demands ,your willing) and where you are giving priority and how your living is  improving your lifestyle!! Courage and patience are keys to find out what you want in life stepwise! Parties you Visited where the people having status that never makes you jelouse ,But  it is you as you are comparing yourself inside  mind with them that  will create mind game..There is spark and bond in between everything that lead you always what you  think inside…that what create you nature and your world and that create your lifestyle…your personality and everything! Be Your Own Best FRIEND!

Conquering Faults in Me!

When engaged in conversation – either with friends, during an interview – or when you do some soul-searching –, it often happens that our qualities and defaults are broached… This is a very instructive practice.

Qualities that do some good

Describing our qualities is something we willingly do most of the time. Either we talk for hours about them or we describe them in a more humble manner in order to avoid boasting. It is all a matter of character!

In fact, whether we do not dare talk about them, whether we tacitly speak about them or whether we extensively mention them (some people do so), we often derive some sort of pleasure.

Most people sometimes feel satisfied when they talk about themselves. Others become extremely loquacious and never stop mentioning themselves unless we stop them!
It is true that thinking about our qualities is a great exercise, one that enables us to take stock of who we are. Being well aware of our resources can help us regain self-confidence.

Shortcomings to know

However, when the time comes to mentioning shortcomings, many people change their attitude. What? Shortcomings? That is impossible!

Some are embarrassed and would like to talk about something else, some minimize them and some apologize for them!

By acting this way, they deprive themselves of a formidable reservoir of opportunities designed to change their life and improve. These shortcomings should not be rejected. Instead, they should be used.

Forge ahead in life thanks to your shortcomings!

Everybody has shortcomings, and that is a good thing! Just like a bird that needs both wings to fly, human beings need to rely on their qualities and shortcomings to progress and be successful.

They are indispensable! Doing without the potential of our shortcomings would amount to hoping that a bird may fly with just one wing!

It is important to know that but there is more: we need to make good use of our qualities but also of our shortcomings. I will not expand on qualities because it is easy. You just need to not overestimate them to take full advantage of them.

As for shortcomings, consider them with interest and do not reject them. They always reveal something important. Turn them into friends ready to help you and not enemies standing in your way.

Use your shortcomings to progress, either by doing the opposite of your shortcomings or by making sure you do not let them dominate you.