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It is said that laughing is part of Man and that it is essential to lead a successful life. Admittedly, everyone likes to laugh, have fun, and party but laughing can also turn into mockery.

Can we laugh about anything?

This is a question that is often asked: “can we laugh about anything?” And the answer is both yes and no.

We can laugh about anything since there is no limit to laughing and since everything can make us laugh or just smile.

The only limit is simple: when laughing becomes synonymous with demeaning, ridiculing, hurting, humiliating people… it goes beyond its very own limits.

Once these limits are set, limits that should be obvious furthermore, it is up to you to decide whether you can laugh at yourself and, therefore, do some self-analysis.

It is indeed easy to make fun of others but it is also a kind way of emphasizing something they should change in the way they talk or act. Everyone can do that.

Laugh at yourself

The hardest part is to laugh at yourself! This is not easy but so gratifying! I would even say that it is a sign of wisdom and humility.

Laughing at yourself is a way of not taking yourself seriously and looking on the bright side of life. This does not mean that you should make fun of your shortcomings but that you should put life and events into perspective, without thinking the world revolves around you.

Also, laughing at yourself consists in analyzing what is happening in a casual – not grave – way and making the most of this experience whether good or bad comes from it.

Laughing at yourself enables you to play down the significance of some situations and avoid attaching too much importance to things that are not significant so you can attach importance to those that really matter!

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Dark Side of My Heart!!!

The theme of coldness relates to extinguished desire. Desire creates heat, while the sunlight leads us on. But satisfaction never lasts, replaced by the cold light of Truth. If you still cling, the ground beneath your feet will “melt”.

Sometimes I’m terrified of my heart
of its constant hunger for whatever it is it wants
The way it stops and starts

~Abhi

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Smile

If you don’t have a smile, I’ll give you one of mine.

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A smile costs nothing but gives much.  It enriches those who receive without making poorer those who give.  It takes but a moment, but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever.  None is so rich or mighty that he cannot get along without it and none is so poor that he cannot be made rich by it.  Yet a smile cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, for it is something that is of no value to anyone until it is given away.  Some people are too tired to give you a smile.  Give them one of yours, as none needs a smile so much as he who has no more to give.

Smile was sung by more than one artist, including Nat King Cole, who sung it in 1954. Other artists that have remade it include Elvis Costello, Lyle Lovett, Michael Buble, and Josh Groban. The words are awesome

“Smile though your heart is aching,
smile even though it’s breaking.
When the clouds are in the sky,
you’ll get by.

If you’ll smile through your fears and sorrow.
Smile and maybe tomorrow,
you’ll see the sun come shining through,
for you.

Light up your face with gladness.
Hide every trace of sadness.
Although a tear may be ever so near.
That’s the time you must keep on trying.
Smile, what’s the use of crying.
You’ll find that life is worthwhile,
if you just smile.”

For A Date!

A Date with a Mermaid


For I don’t seek the land, this road is mine;
To drink the ocean, its now on my mind;
With thy heart the time must wait;
With the mermaid its a date.

~Abhi

Words on Mind

There’s alwayz a little truth behind every “Just Kidding!” 

A little knowledge behind every “I dont Know!”

A little emotion behind every “I don’t care!” 

A Little love behind every “I hate u!” 

A little uneasiness behind every “I am Okay!”

A Little pain behind every “Forget it!”

A little fear behind every “Leave me alone!” 

A little hope behind every “Goodbye!”

There’s always “Something behind Every Nothing!” 

Every heart has a story to tell behind every action, emotion & expression! 

If only we’d understand