Prisons Of Life

I read this story on a social site and thought of capturing it in under World of Stories. A very deep thought conveyed in very simple words. Thought of giving it a Title “Prisons Of Life” as actually the absence of Satisfaction is the key to the doors of suffering. Dissatisfaction is always a part of life, but suffering can be overcome by controlled channeling of hunger for eternal peace.

That were just my thoughts when I read it.. Here is the story:

For several weeks, one of my fellow monks had been teaching meditation in a new maximum-security prison close to Perth. The small group of prisoners had come to know and respect the monk well. At the end of one session, they began to ask him about his routine in a Buddhist monastery.

“We have to get up at 4:00 A.M. every morning,” he began.
“Sometimes it is very cold because our small rooms don’t have heaters. We eat only one meal a day, all mixed together in the one bowl. In the afternoon and at night we can eat nothing at all. There is no sex or alcohol, of course. Nor do we have television, radio, or music. We never watch movies, nor can we play sports. We talk little, work hard, and spend our free time sitting cross -legged watching our breath. We sleep on the floor.”

The inmates were stunned at the spartan austerity of our monastic life. It made their high-security prison seem like a five-star hotel in comparison. In fact, one of the prisoners was so moved with sympathy for the plight of their monk friend that he forgot where he was and said: “That’s terrible living in your monastery. Why don’t you come in here and stay with us?”

The monk told me that everyone in the room cracked up with laughter. So did I when he related the incident. Then I began to contemplate it deeply.

It is true that my monastery is far more ascetic than the severest of prisons for society’s felons, yet many come to stay of their free will, and are happy here. Whereas many want to escape from the well-appointed prison, and are unhappy there. Why ?

It is because, in my monastery, the inmates want to be there; in a prison, the inmates don’t want to be there. That is the difference.

Any place you don’t want to be, no matter how comfortable, is a prison for you. This is the real meaning of the word “prison.” If you are in a job where you don’t want to be, you are in a prison. If you are in a relationship where you don’t want to be, you are in a prison. If you are in a sick and painful body where you don’t want to be, then that too is a prison for you. A prison is any situation where you don’t want to be.

So how do you escape from the many prisons of life?

Easy. Just change your perception of your situation into “wanting to be there.” Even in San Quentin, or the next best thing – my monastery – when you want to be there, then it is no longer a prison for you. By changing your perception of your job, relationship, or sick body, and by accepting the situation rather than not wanting it, then it no longer feels like a prison. When you are content to be here, then you are free.

Freedom is being content to be where you are. Prison is wanting to be somewhere else. The Free World is the world experienced by one who is content. The real freedom is freedom from desire, never freedom of desire.

~ Ajahn Brahm, From his book ‘Who Ordered this Truckload of Dung?’

Here’s a breakdown of the speech that won the 2015 World Championship of Public Speaking | Business Insider India

Qahtani starts his speech with a sight gag, pretending to consider lighting up a cigarette before the audience’s reaction convinces him not to. He transitions from this into a sober defense of the tobacco industry before saying, straight faced, that all of the facts and figures he cited were made up. The aaudience then roars with laughter.

“When you get an audience laughing, you’ve got them on your side,” Qahtani says.

 

Source: Here’s a breakdown of the speech that won the 2015 World Championship of Public Speaking | Business Insider India

2 Sides of same coin

The key question isn’t ‘What is Evil?’ The key question is : ‘When does Good become Evil? When does the coin flip?’

What is the greatest Good; the Good that created this age? The answer was obvious. And therefore, the greatest Evil was exactly the same thing, once it began to disturb the balance.

The cultural differences between East and West, according to one artist – Quartz

Graphic artist Yang Liu has a sharp eye for cultural comparison, honed by personal experience. In 1990, at the age of 13, she moved from Beijing, to Berlin. After exactly 13 years there, she started an illustrated project to document her dual experiences in China and Germany.

Source: The cultural differences between East and West, according to one artist – Quartz

17 Camels – a story of belief that solution exists

A friend forwarded this story and it did catch my attention to seek hidden learning in it.

This is how it goes:

A father left 17 Camels as an Asset for his Three Sons.

When the Father passed away, his sons opened up the will.

The Will of the Father stated that the Eldest son should get Half of 17 Camels,

The Middle Son should be given 1/3rd of 17 Camels,

Youngest Son should be given 1/9th of the 17 Camels,

As it is not possible to divide 17 into half or 17 by 3 or 17 by 9, the sons started to fight with each other.

So, they decided to go to a wise man.

The wise man listened patiently about the Will. The wise man, after giving this thought, brought one camel of his own & added the same to 17. That increased the total to 18 camels.

Now, he started reading the deceased father’s will.

Half of 18 = 9.
So he gave 9 camels
to the eldest son.

1/3rd of 18 = 6.
So he gave 6 camels
to the middle son.

1/9th of 18 = 2.
So he gave 2 camels
to the youngest son.

Now add this up:
9 + 6 + 2 = 17 &
This leaves 1 camel,
which the wise man took back.

MORAL: The attitude of negotiation & problem solving is to find the 18th camel i.e. the common ground. Once a person is able to find the common ground, the issue is resolved. It is difficult at times.

However, to reach a solution, the first step is to believe that there is a solution. If we think that there is no solution, we won’t be able to reach any!

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A very interesting management lesson